5 Kind of Friends You Will Meet in Your Life
Mar 14
Friends… They say it is the family we choose for ourselves. The family that though we may not share the same blood, but the family that beats the same heart. They are the people you can lean on in times of distress – the ones you will share some of the best and even worsts moments in your life.
Friendship is a gift – a wonderful kind that stay and lasts your whole life. In our life, we meet a lot of people, some of them stays for a bit and then leaves, while some stays forever, and usually they are the ones we thought would never stay. Isn’t it nice to look into our lives and see the people who sticks around us whenever we are up and we are down? To help you, here are the five kinds of friends you will meet or have in your life;
- Not just a friend – but a best friend!
The best among them all! We all have the friend who we feel as if they are our brothers or sisters from another mother. They are usually what we refer as our best friend. They are the kind of friend where you can totally be you and share everything that you want – may it be your frustrations, your biggest dream, your scariest nightmare, or your farthest dreams!
They are the ones you can tell all. They know you for who you truly are and you also know them exactly the way they know you. You treat each other like sisters or brothers because they are not just mere friends to you but you see them as your extended family, one you can always depend on.
- The crazy friend who will bring sunshine into your life
She’s your source of positivity. This is the kind of friend where you expect nothing from him or her but all fun and happiness. They are as if the ambassador of joyfulness because when you are around them, you can totally have fun with basically everything! They are your bundles of joy. They are always there to cheer you up. It is the kind of friend where you get most motivation and encouragement all the time. They tend to be more of a light side than make you feel burdened.
- I’m-your-other-mother kind of friend
This is the kind of friend that gives you advices for free! Just like what our mothers usually do. They try to be the realist in terms of everything – they don’t pamper you with good things but they give you the glimpse of life as the reality it is. They tend to remind you of the basic do’s and don’ts in your life.
They are somehow the best kind of friend you could ever have because they may hit you hard – at least you know for a fact that they are just too emotionally connected to you that they care. It is the best feeling to have friends like this – and usually they are your mama’s favorite!
- The one who only appears on rare events
They are the kind of friends who appears occasionally. These are the ones you don’t get to spend most of the time, maybe because it is of the distance or the difficult schedules you and your friend have. They are not usually around in most occasions and events in your life – they are the ones who always bailed out in every event. But they are still your friend because you understand that though they are not around at all times, you know you can talk to them whenever you need someone to talk too or the other way around. It is still nice to keep friends like this.
- The walking rain cloud kind of friend
The one with exploding negativity! If we have the all-out positivity- kind of friend, we also have that one friend who makes us realize all the dark sides of every aspect in the issues of our lives. They are the ones who usually reminds us of the negative and bad consequences that might happen to us when we do certain things.
They also have this power to convince us that things aren’t that happy at all and that at certain point in our lives, we will have to cry and be hurt and be broken inside. They don’t pamper us too much with satisfying words, but gives us the glimpse of the dark side of the reality which helps us become more ready for the things ahead. Friends like this are for keeps!
